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He Aint Heavy He's My Brother.... inlaw.

Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 2:05 am
by koobs
Those of you who have been playing DAOC would have seen me about albeit for the last 10 days or so, and the reason is as follows;

About 10 days ago my brother in law (whos 28 ) came home from a day of skydiving and had a shower, whilst in the shower he had a massive anurism (bursting of one of the arteries in the brain). So i chucked jodi on a plane and waited, 36 hrs later he had 3 strokes from blood clots in his knoggen (head). So i grabed Dane and we drove to brisvegas about 1300 odd Km and 12 hrs or so.

That is why i havent been on. He is currently under extreme sedation and induced coma so that his brain pressure is lowered, to the degree that they have paralised him to stop any movement at all. He has been on life support for about 8 days.

Tomorrow is crunch day with only Tyrone being able to make the decision if he is to live, die or be a pumpkin for the rest of his life.

If your religious pray for him, if not (like me) cross your fingers and hope. He has massive ammounts of swelling in the brain and only time will tell.

I will get back on when we know more, sorry to lay this on you guys but your family and i need to get it out.

See yall on the other side.

Koobs, Jodi & Dane
Brisbane.

Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 3:38 am
by McPhisto
geeze mate.. nothing but good thoughts for you and yours.

Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 8:53 am
by Lilae
My prayers are with your family Koobs.

Posted: Thu Apr 20, 2006 7:47 am
by farf
just read this and koobs, i hope all goes well man.

Update

Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 4:34 pm
by guestkoobs
Being as defiant and tenatious as he is my brother inlaw has amased and bewildered doctors in the ICU and Nerology departments.

Yesterday he has come off sedation medication and is coming round, he is tracking people in the cubical, raising his eyebrows and moving his hands, much of which is unexpected but very welcome.

It shows that someones home and that he isnt necessaceraly going to be a pumpkin.

This is all on a razors edge tho cause at any time if the currently clotted anurism bursts its good night Irene.

We are off to see him today and if all continues to improve in the next 24 hrs Jodi and i will be returning home. Thanks for your support.


Guest Koobs......

healing..

Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 12:07 am
by Urgon
Glad to hear he is doing better Koobs! I hope he has a good safe recovery!

Best wishes!

Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 10:54 pm
by McPhisto
koobs.. you got somewhere to stay while down there? and im not talking paying for a hotel.. if u need somewhere let me know and ill T something up for you

blah

Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 1:56 am
by Guestkoobs
Thanks bud but both my and Jodi's family are in or around brisbane so we were good for accomidation.

Well after a stressful 14 days or so we are back home arrived back after a 13 hr drive weeeeee. might even play a bit tonight god knows i am that wired from all the coffee and red bulls.....

Jodi's lil bro is scheduled in for an op on wednesday at lunch.

He further amazes the medical staff and is using his arms and speaking fluently with only some gibberish. (drugs apprantly cause this)

So he is still critical but stable, only critical because any movment could dislodge the big ole blood clot that is currently sitting where the burst artery is.....

He has been moved to Neuro/Surgical ward rather then ICU and he has been taken off all tubes and ventalation.

Hopefully the op will fix him up and he will be right as rain.... well as well as he can be anyway. Although at this stage he is remarkably in tune with his surrounds the reason he is there. At this stage although he has had massive ammounts of head trauma and swelling it looks that he will recover with minimal deficenties.

Just think a week ago we were about to plan a funeral.

Cheers to all for your hopes and well wishes. Will post how he goes for on Wednesday.

koobs

Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 7:01 am
by guestfarf
sweet, that's good news koobs.

glad to hear he's doing well, and i hope the op works out

Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 3:55 pm
by Lilae
still praying for you guys :)

Good to hear he's bouncing back so well, sounds like he's a pretty healthy and active guy, so that should make his chances a ton better for a complete recovery.

<3

Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 10:20 am
by Kharybdis
Yikes and holy crap and all that. :(

He's got my best wishes, Koobs.

Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 8:34 pm
by Cheshirekitty
Glad to hear that hes pulling through Koobs,
and like everyone before me has said best wishes for a speedy and full recovery..sometimes the best medicine is knowing you have so many people pulling for you :)

Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 1:02 am
by GuestKoobs
So the latest installment.

He was booked in for the op to get his anuerism (finally spelt it right) coiled (smart term for plugged) however they cant do it at the hospital that he is in and have to move him to the one on the other side of town.

They need an icu bed after his operation so that he can be monitored constantly. Therein lies a problem. Due to our ailing medical resources here in Queensland there are no spare ICU beds at that hospital, so we wait, wait for a spare bed, wait for someone to get well or die......

Not nice at all i hope its the former. If by monday he cant get into the Royal Brisbane Hospital they will Crack his head and clamp the artery, this is far more evasive then the coiling option where they run a wire up through your groin to your anuerism.

Fingers crossed to have a bed become available.

Koobs out.